Thursday, April 16, 2009

not pushing Q and A

here is nice Q&A we came across that addresses the lifestyle being a joint thing and that you should never force your partner to do something they don't want to...

Adult Swinging - Adult swinging

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Expert: Leesa - 4/2/2009
Question
Hi i am married for a couple of years and we love each other.My wife used to have great sex curiosity which is dying now.I have observed when she chat online she gets hot.While doing sex i talk about other guys and she likes it but asks me if i can handle it.I want her to drink,smoke and expose herself in sexy clothes,go to nightclubs.How should i make her agree on this?

Answer
Hi
Thanks for your question.
I must say that you should never try and MAKE your wife do anything she doesnt want to do.
Our lifestyle is about communication and understanding and respect.
If you force your wife into doing something that she does not want to do you will destroy what you have.
Can i suggest you go to the chatroom and participate with your wife, have sex on cam maybe , join her with her fantasties while she is on cam, i find this really hot and it is very harmless if done together.
Then go from there, take it step by step, talk and commmunicate and watch the boundries change slowly over time.
hope that helps
Leesa

read more on the swinglifestyle here: http://en.allexperts.com/q/Adult-Swinging-2707/

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