Thursday, February 26, 2009

A little more about us.

Someone asked us (the Owners) for more information about us. Well where to begin, we started swinging quite a few years ago. Are first experience was with another single male actually a friend of ours and that experience started one hell of a ride. We then joined a couple of sites and did the whole online thing of emailing and chatting with other couples, single males, and single females. Our next experience was another couple and that was fun yet uncomfortable because they were more experienced and wanted to do full swap… We just weren’t there yet… we were enjoying ourselves yet as newbie’s the emotions flowed out of us… Jealousy, insecurity, fear… thus came the rules … No Means No… communication is a must… we very rarely play with someone when we first meet. The keyword phrase… Our safety word that lets each other know if we are uncomfortable… and no one pushes the other into doing something they are not ready to do… and one thing we have found that works well for us even though it might seem cold or sluty is we don’t play with the same people over and over again. The reason for this is to avoid getting personally attached to someone outside of the core relationship. And yes that one was from experience a girlfriend of ours got really close to us and it ended us causing more trouble than it was worth. Now even though we have been in the Swinglifestyle for years that doesn’t mean we have been with countless people on the contrary we don’t get out that often. Life happens and we do have kids so our time is limited and we try and make the most of the play time we get…
Now what prompted us making our own website, this one will probably surprise you… One of our kids is disabled and not only were we trying to figure out how we can help him the best way we could we also wanted to help other families in the same situation. You see he has William Syndrome which is very rare and as a matter of fact it took us 6 years before we even found out what was wrong with him. We fought doctors and school districts over and over again who just wanted to medicate him or put him someplace that he wouldn’t be a bother to the other students. So one night the idea hit us let’s make our own swingers / dating site and have the proceeds go to help fund research on Williams Syndrome and help the families who have children with Williams Syndrome. The idea seemed odd yet natural to take something we know and enjoy and use it to help others in need. So we set up a trust then a corporation and then set about designing a site and well here we are.

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