Monday, March 9, 2009

The hunt for the golden unicorn

A lot of couples search for that single bi female to join them in a hot threesome. For many it is their first experience in the swinglifestyle or at least what they want as their first experience. How do you find this mystical creature the golden unicorn a single bi female? Some try bars others try friends, this can be very dangerous for some couples. My husband and I have played with a few bi girlfriends and have found several things to be careful of. If you as a couple are thinking of entering the swinglifestyle and want to add the golden unicorn to your relationship we suggest a couple of things to ask yourselves.
1. Do each of us want to do this?
2. Is this a one time thing or do we want to have an ongoing relationship?
3. Can we handle any Jealousy issues that come up?
4. What if she likes one of us more than the other?

We have found that the hunt for a single bi female can be very exhausting and most of the time not really worth the headache. Playing with other couples in the swinglifestyle has been more rewarding than our experiences with any golden unicorn. Even our experience with single males has been less of a challenge. With all that being said we are not against single bi females we have found the best place to meet them is through an online personals site. Chat with them get a feel of the personality you are thinking about inviting into your bedroom. It has been our experience now our rule that a one time thing is best, no on-going relationship. Be open-minded think about inviting a couple who is looking for the same thing and that you get along with to come play with you, start of with soft swap before moving into full swap. Communicate with each other... Talk about your feeling... Jealousy issues will come up it is how you address them and handle them that matters. The Swinglifestyle can be extremely fun and rewarding... The play time you share can bring you closer together as long as you are open with each other.

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