Sunday, November 1, 2009

Vanilla Treats

Halloween Haunts or Halloween Taunts… We have our regular haunts for Halloween like the Halloween Ball in Vegas or some other Swinglifestyle event / club party in Los Angeles which ever sparks or interest or desire. This year however due to our schedules we were unable to really plan a getaway. Me being the OCD stricken member of this relationship usually plans months in advance picking out costumes, ordering them, special workout plans if the costumes require it, making room reservations, travel arrangements, getting friends locked in to go with us, etc… Yeah if you haven’t guessed Halloween is my favorite holiday and just truly fun in a lifestyle environment. The costumes seem to allow others to feel more free open. I guess with the wearing of one mask they feel free to drop all the others.

This year however with no time to plan we ended up accepting an invitation from some Vanilla friends to go to a local nightclub. We did some last minute shopping and threw some costumes together and proceeded to go out. I must admit that I wasn’t too excited about the idea. This is my night after all; how relaxed can I get having to watch what I say or do. Not only are we out with people who aren’t into wife swapping but we are at a club in the same town we live. Our neighbors, people in the community are there one misstep in judgment and there we are exposed as Swingers. No we aren’t ashamed of whom we are… It is kind of a Superman / Clark Kent sort of thing. We dress as Clark Kent during the day to interact with the general population and at night we remove that mask that we wear so we can be who we really are. After all Superman becomes Clark not for himself but for the protection of those closest to him i.e. our kids.

Where the night gets interesting… As the drinks are consumed and the dancing goes on one of Barbie’s girlfriend’s grabs her on the dance floor and begins to kiss her. That is where the thought process starts going into overdrive. First of let me say this friend is Hot… and those looks have been exchanged all night. The comments her and her boyfriend have made make you wonder are they into the lifestyle too. Do they PLAY? After all they are the only other ones that seem to have the costumes that suggest more than a trip to Wal-Mart. Plus comments about the other outfits at home make you go hhmmmmm could they be Swingers too? We hide in plain sight could they be wearing the mask too? How far do we want to take this? Do we want to test the waters? Could this night turn out to be less of a bust than we originally thought? Then another thought hits me… wait a minute girls kissing each other has become fashionable. This is something that is happening in nightclubs all over America with little more than what it is some kissing. Time to do what you normally do and let the girls take the lead and go where the night takes you after all this could be a case of metal masturbation.

Well nothing more happened than making out on the dance floor. Are they closest swinger’s who knows? Considering the time and place it was best to leave it alone. Just another reason why we prefer lifestyle events, you don’t have to worry about any of this stuff it all comes down to if everyone is clicking and the desire is there hell that is hard enough finding four people that click. So I have already started to plan for next year’s party. Ha-ha No more Vanilla clubs for us.

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