Ok this one might offend some people, but it is something we have to share. It isn’t our intent to isolate some people or say that what they did / do is wrong. I guess it is more of a case of timing or consideration. If you are into Wife Swapping or are in the Swinglifestyle you’ll find all sorts of different things or behavior and we aren’t judging or saying that one is right or another is wrong, but some things are worth sharing. This is one of them.
Let’s back up and I’ll explain what the hell this is all about. We had been talking with this couple online for a little while and everyone seemed to be getting along so we decided to meet at a club. The night started off great. They showed up, we showed up – and that in and of itself is a plus. We found a table; got some drinks, all the normal small talk “wow you do look like your pictures” “it is good to see that they weren’t from 10yrs ago”. The girls hit it off and the guy didn’t seem creepy or pushy. Just down to earth real people, they seemed to be a loving couple. Balanced if you will... We danced and flirted for the next few hours. My wife and I took a moment to ourselves to talk to see how each other felt about them and we both gave the green light. This is something that is rare because we usually just meet first then go home and talk to see if we want to play with them or not. So when they invited us back to their place we said sure let’s go. Again, everything was going great they had a clean house, no kids sleeping in the next room. We had a couple of drinks and talked for a few minutes then the girls started to kiss and then she led us off to the bedroom.
Clothes are starting to come off and get more heated. The girls are playing with each other while the guys are rubbing and caressing the girls. Now without sounding conceited we are a good looking couple, no we aren’t models but we aren’t livestock either. So the thing that happened next kind of took me off guard. The guy gets up and goes and puts in a porno. He then sits in a chair and proceeds to watch this movie. Now I enjoy a good porno just as much as the next guy, but you have a real life sex show right in front of you. WTF… Sure we don’t mind playing with your wife without you, if you’re going to give us the go ahead. But if you’re going to stop and watch a porno to get aroused to come back and join the party then you might want to look into getting some Viagra. I mean it is one thing to put in the video before the playing starts as kind of a mood setter, but to get up in the middle of playing huh. I mean as a guy I thought this was strange but females can be sensitive to shit like this. Their heads start to run with thoughts of “what is wrong with me”, “He didn’t find me attractive”.
We had great time with his wife and when he came back he was kind of a fourth wheel in a three wheel situation. We will probably never play with them again, it was just too strange. Now that is saying something considering the various things we have done/ tried. Well it’s more of an awkward thing. This is something that could have easily been avoided by putting in the video earlier. Just one more example of someone self-obsessed meaning not considering the other people in the room. The one thing you have to keep in mind if you are going to be in the Swinglifestyle is that it is a group thing. It isn’t just about you take a moment to consider the people around and with you.
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